Below is what I currently do. It's not a final list because I'm always experimenting and so should you!  I try to use common plants.  NOTE: I was using peppermint for all kinds of cleaning, but it made me feel arthritic - see http://noarthritis.com/mint.htm

• ELIMINATE!  Shop as little as possible.  I don't use the following: make-up, perfume, metal jewelry, hair dye, hair spray, nail polish, soap, detergent, air fresheners, deodorant, junk mail.
• CLEANING KIT: I've switched to diluted 'scallion' juice (crush or blend, then sieve) for just about everything: bath, hair, laundry, dishes, mirrors, windows, floors, and general household cleaning.  I grow them in pots indoors (mainly shallots and scallions), so I have a constant supply.   I sometimes also use oat flour, egg yolk, egg white, and apple cider vinegar.  (I use Bragg's which is raw/not pasteurized and organic)
• SKIN & HAIR: a couple of sprigs of scallions, crush or blend, then sieve.  I sometimes use salt, but if we all used salt often, we would alter the salinity of our drinking water.  Apple cider vinegar seems to be effective against many skin conditions, including: lice, scabies, shingles, and seborrheic dermatitis
• HAND SOAP: oat flour in small cheese shaker - use fat for hard to clean hands, then wash with oat flour to remove grease.
• HAIR CONDITIONER: egg yolk as needed
• HAIR STYLING GEL: egg white as needed
• TEETH AND MOUTHWASH: onion greens juice or apple cider vinegar
• DEODORANT: I haven't found the perfect solution.  Try onion greens, just slice a rub the inside of the green on your armpit.  I've also found that certain grains, such as wheat, increases my body odor. And don't wear synthetics.
• CALCIUM BUILD-UP on faucets, pans, etc.: apple cider vinegar (wrap faucet in cloth soaked in vinegar for 30 minutes)
• DUSTING: use gloves, sometimes lightly wetted with diluted scallion juice.
• HOUSEHOLD CLEANING: Use a little bit of oil or fat for tough spots
• LAUNDRY: Apple cider vinegar and sometimes oat flour
• MORE ON CLOTHING: Try hand washing, then line dry. Sunlight is a natural bleach and disinfectant.  If you use a machine, try a front loader - it's more effective and needs less detergent.  I hand sew and knit (using un-dyed yarn) many of my clothes in order to avoid toxic materials and sweatshops. I try to avoid cotton or silk because they are not locally produced. I dye the yarn in combinations of beets, turmeric, and black turtle beans (use uncooked beans and only soak for two days, otherwise beans start to spoil)!  I haven't yet learned how to avoid dyes fading...stay tuned.
• JEWELRY --  Diamonds are not a girl's best friend - http://apscuhuru.org/campaigns/diamonds/index.xhtml
• DISHWARE -- I use ceramic, glass or stainless steel (however, even these materials can be contaminated with various substances. SEE http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radioactive_scrap_metal Avoid plastic, aluminum, or stickless pans.  Also, avoid using dish washer.  It's a major source of indoor air pollution.
• HOME & TRANSPORTATION -- We live in downtown Philadelphia in a small 1300 square foot townhouse. We generally walk, rather than drive. We own a Toyota Prius, a hybrid, but have also joined phillycarshare.org/, since our son often uses our car.

• AIR CLEANERS --  Certain houseplants are beneficial to remove toxins from the air, such as formaldehyde, benzene etc.  The best plants for removing these and other toxins are philodendrons, spider plants, aloe vera, English ivy, golden pothos, and Boston fern. To learn more, there is a really good book available called: "How to Grow Fresh Air: 50 Houseplants That Purify Your Home or Office"by B. C. Wolverton. http://www.ourlittleplace.com/nontoxic.html

• PLANT & LAWN CARE -- For excellent potting soil, go out in the woods and dig some up!  Do not use store-bought chemicals, even if the container says it's safe.  There's no way to know.  Make your own compost and plant fertilizer using ingredients such as: rotting leaves, egg shells, vegetable waste (no citrus or meat products). ALSO SEE: ZWA'S LAWN CARE KIT
• FOOD -- Try growing your own herbs, greens, and other foods!   Greens from planted root veggies are very nutritious and easy to grow, such as: onions, garlic, & carrot greens!  Avoid foods that are imported, highly processed, packaged, canned, bottled, baked, radiated, highly refined grains and sugars (including maple syrup).  Eat and cook with any and all basic foods that are organic and can be grown in your local area (not imported!)

AVOID! NOTE: Despite the assurances of the U.S. Food and Drug Administration and the Environmental Protection Agency, many environmental health hazards are associated with the manufacture, use, and disposal of consumer products. (See Health & Wastes & Toxics)  "EPA Registered" on pesticide and other products does NOT mean that the chemicals were fully tested for safety by the EPA or are safe to use. Most chemicals have not been fully tested for safety by the EPA. The EPA continues to rely heavily upon research and reporting by industry.

• Driving a car - try to live within walking distance of where you work
• Any mined product - including products such as: aluminum, gold, diamonds, baking soda, perlite, stickless cookware
• Plastics, synthetics, or petroleum-tainted or treated products, containers, and packaging
• Soaps and detergents, petroleum-tainted cosmetics, jells, & personal care products
• Outside lawn & garden chemicals, pesticides, & fertilizers
• Inside pesticides, pest strips, & flea collars (see: Pesticides) 
• Bleach & non-biodegradable detergents and cleaning agents
• Paper: tissues, napkins, towels, diapers
• Fluoridated water and fluoridated dental products (see: Fluoride)
• Chlorinated water and chlorine cleaning products (see: Chlorine)
• Talc (see: Wastes&Toxics)
• Fiberglass (including air filters and insulation) see: Wastes&Toxics)
• "Dry clean only" clothes
• Air fresheners / perfumes / scented candles (These scents are particularly harmful for the growing numbers of chemically sensitive, allergic, and asthmatic sufferers.)
• Aerosol spays
• New homes: Most new buildings need a period of years to "out-gas" due to the use of toxic construction materials. In addition, old buildings may harbor lead paint and/or lead plumbing.
• Dishwashers: The biggest source of indoor air pollution may be the dishwasher and its plastic parts. US tap water is laced with traces of toxic chemicals, including by-products of water-treatment with chlorine and fluoride. Environmental Science & Technology reports that the hot spray of a dishwasher liberates 96 to 100 percent of the toluene, ethylbenzene, and cyclohexane in the water within minutes and releases it into the surrounding air. Washing machines, showerheads and faucet taps also release toxins in lesser amounts. (The hotter the water, the more toxins are freed.) Chlorine cleansers compound the problem University of Texas researchers warn. Listed in Earth Island Journal Winter 1999-2000 Page 3, Earth Island Journal is published quarterly by the non-profit Earth Island Institute www.earthisland.org
• Check-out your medications - many are hazardous to your health and the environment